How to Feel Your Most Beautiful and Empowered on Session Day
Boudoir photography is more than just a photoshoot; it’s a celebration of your unique beauty, strength, and confidence. But let’s be real—even the thought of stepping in front of the camera in lingerie can feel a bit intimidating. That’s why I’m here to help you step into your boudoir session feeling like the absolute queen you are. Here are some confidence boosters to make sure you walk into your session feeling beautiful, empowered, and ready to shine.
1. Pamper Yourself in the Days Leading Up to the Session
Self-care isn’t just a luxury—it’s a necessity when you’re preparing for a boudoir shoot. In the days leading up to your session, take time to focus on you.
Hydrate: Drinking plenty of water will help your skin look radiant and healthy.
Skincare: Stick to your skincare routine or treat yourself to a gentle exfoliation for that smooth, glowing look.
Relax: Take a bubble bath, read your favorite book, or spend time doing whatever helps you unwind. A calm mind leads to radiant confidence.
2. Wear Something That Makes You Feel Amazing
The best boudoir outfits are the ones that make you feel incredible. Whether it’s lace, satin, or your partner’s oversized button-down shirt, choose pieces that highlight your favorite features and make you feel sexy. Don’t stress over sizes or trends—this is all about YOU and what makes you feel good.
Pro tip: Bring a variety of outfits to your session! Having options can help you feel more prepared and confident on the day.
3. Trust Your Photographer
You’re not expected to know how to pose or what angles work best—that’s my job! I’ll guide you through every pose, from the arch of your back to the tilt of your chin. All you need to do is relax and trust the process. I’m here to make sure you look and feel your best.
4. Play Your Favorite Music
Music has an incredible way of boosting confidence and setting the mood. Before your session, think of songs that make you feel unstoppable and empowered. Whether it’s sultry jazz, upbeat pop, or anything in between, I’ll create a playlist to match your vibe and help you feel at ease.
5. Practice Positive Self-Talk
Your inner voice has so much power, so let’s make sure it’s lifting you up.
Look in the mirror and compliment yourself.
Focus on the features and qualities you love about yourself.
Remind yourself that you deserve this experience because you’re worth it.
Repeat after me: I am beautiful, I am powerful, and I am ready to own this experience.
6. Take Care of the Details
Little things can make a big difference in how confident you feel on session day.
Clean and shape your nails.
Shave or wax (if that’s your thing).
Pack all your outfits, accessories, and personal items the night before so you’re not scrambling.
Knowing that everything is in place can help you feel more relaxed and ready to shine.
7. Embrace the Experience
Nerves are normal, but don’t let them take over. Remember that this session is for YOU—to celebrate who you are, right now, in this moment. Embrace the imperfections, the laughter, the sultry glances, and every part of the experience. You’ll leave feeling more empowered and confident than ever before.
Final Thoughts
Your boudoir session is a chance to see yourself in a whole new light. With a little preparation, a lot of self-love, and trust in the process, you’ll walk into your session radiating confidence. And trust me—you’ll leave feeling like the most beautiful, empowered version of yourself.
Ready to book your session or have questions? Let’s chat! I’m here to make your boudoir experience unforgettable.
